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Cissie BEDFORD

Grave: 64bInstitution: ManorEstimated birth year: 1878 ±1 yearDied: 29 July 1920Buried: 4 August 1920Age at Burial: 42Occupation: NoneCivil State: Married
Their Story

Cissie BEDFORD

b.1878-d.1920

When this story was originally published a few years ago, Cissie Bedford proved to be very difficult to pin down.  At that point, we did already have case notes for Cissie which provided some key information: 

  1. We are told by Chrissie’s husband that she had been born illegitimately to a very young mother.
  2. We know from her case notes that she had given birth 20 years prior to her admission to Manor in Epsom.

Then in 2026,  the emergence of a new visitor book record for Manor Asylum, filled in gaps in the original research. The following is now her rewritten story.

Although her name is given as Cissie in Horton Cemetery records she was known throughout her life as Chrissie (sometimes spelled ‘Chrissy’). We find also that she was known as Christina. The different names are used throughout the story to match the name given at that stage in her life.

The story

Chrissie Matthews was born  on June 20th 1877 in the parish of Ulting, Essex. There is a record of baptism on June 23rd 1878 for Ulting, All Saints, Essex and Chrissie’s mother was named as Louisa Lydia Matthews. Louisa had been born and baptised in 1863 and so was just 14 years old when Chrissie was born.

After that point, we do not find Chrissie and Lydia together in the records at any point. Where were Louisa and Chrissie between 1877 and 1891? If they were in the village, I have not been able to locate them.

In 1891, we find Chrissie, aged 13 years, living as a ‘visitor’ at 139 Nounsley Green, Hatfield Peverel, in the home of Thomas and Mary A Valentine.  This is five miles from Ulting. The couple had a five year old child, Percy.  Had Chrissie not stolen a Gladstone bag (later in this story) we would not have found this out.  

It might appear, therefore, that the illegitimate child, Chrissie, may well have been sent to live in a different house in the village. From the 1881 Census, we learn that Thomas Valentine was deaf.

Who was Louisa Lydia Matthews?

She was the daughter of Jasper Robert Matthews (1835-1870), a builder, and Eleanor Lucking (1839-1908). They lived in Hatfield Peverel in a house which still stands today near to St Andrew’s Church.  

We find Louisa Lydia with the family in 1871. She would have given birth to Chrissie in 1877 but there is no apparent trace of her in 1881 in the village.  By 1891 she is living in Farnham and her illegitimate daughter, Chrissie, is residing with the Valentine family (as above).

Louisa Lydia married Albert Howe, a warrant officer in the Royal Engineers, on May 1st 1890. He was a widower with several children.  Eleanor, perhaps her sister or her mother, witnessed the wedding which took place in Farnham, Surrey.

Records suggest that Louisa Lydia gave birth to several children in South Africa and died on November 26th, 1896 in Egypt.

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A regular visitor to Islington Workhouse

The next time we find Chrissie is when her contact with workhouses and asylums begins; she is 17 years old.  

On July 17th 1894, Chrissie Matthews is admitted to St John’s Road Workhouse Infirmary Islington, aged 17 years and single.  She is described as a servant. She was discharged the following day to the infirmary. There is a record to show that she was admitted again on that same day, July 18th 1894. She is discharged, at her own request, on July 23rd 1894.

On October 30th 1894, Chrissie is again admitted to Islington and is not discharged until November 9th when she is transferred to Claybury. There is a  settlement order dated October 31st 1894.

She is discharged from Claybury, as ‘recovered’ on April 13th, 1895.

The next time we find Chrissie is in the newspapers for theft.

Chrissy steals a Gladstone bag

On May 31st, 1895, there is a newspaper article about a Chrissy Matthews in the Essex County Chronicle. Given that she was born in Essex, this might explain the interest in a theft which took place in Wimbledon.

She was charged with stealing a brown Gladstone bag valued at 18s. 6d. from a pawnbroker’s shop. A police officer questioned her about the bag, and she said a man called Fred Smith had bought it for her, but she did not know where he lived. 

The same incident is recorded in the Wimbledon News on May 25th, 1895. Chrissy is described as a girl of about 18 years, who ‘looked like a gypsy’ and is described as of Hatfield Peveril, Essex’. 

She tells the officer that he has a ‘tidy cheek’ to stop her and ask.  Her story unravels and the officer says he will take her to the station. She then offers the officer the bag if he will let her go!   Luckily, the article tells us that ‘the heart of the man of law and order was hard as adamant and the prisoner paid a compulsory visit to the police station’.

Once at the station, it transpired that Chrissy had also stolen a book from a different shop and had been seen loitering around the area. She was remanded.

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Admission to Brookwood

On June 7th 1895, Crissy Matthews is admitted to Brookwood. She is described as a domestic servant, Church of England and had previously been at the Kingston Workhouse. She is described as having mania and this attack had lasted 16 days. Her first attack had been when she was about 15 years old.  She was discharged on February 14th, 1896.

Christina Matthews was admitted on July 3rd 1896 to Bow St Infirmary, suffering from a venereal condition which they cure and they release her on July 17th. At her own request she leaves the Bow St Infirmary on August 17th. 

Christina Matthews is admitted to Fisherton on December 15th 1896 and she is released on May 4th 1897. There is a removal order to that effect with costs being charged to Ulting Parish, Malden, Essex.

She is then admitted to Claybury, Essex on May 4th 1897. Her daughter, Maud, is born on October 7th 1897, (the date confirmed in the 1939 Register). This suggests that she gave birth while in Claybury. It has not been possible to find Maud’s birth certificate or any other details of her. She is discharged from Claybury as ‘recovered’ on October 26th 1899. 

Of note, in 1895, the London County Council appointed Frederick Mott, who had a long association with Horton,  as director for their new research laboratory at Claybury. Over the next 19 years he carried out vast research and is particularly remembered for helping to establish that ‘general paralysis of the insane (GPI) was due to syphilis.

On June 15th, 1904, Chrissy was admitted to Leicester B and was discharged on October 18th 1904, ‘not improved’. But where did she go to, if not improved?

There is then a long gap in time.

Chrissie marries Frederick John Bedford

Chrissie Matthews married Frederick John Bedford in the second quarter of 1912 in Lambeth. It has proved tricky to find either Chrissie or her husband in any dwelling after their marriage. Thus far it has also not been possible to locate either of them in the 1911 Census.  

When Chrissie is admitted to Manor Asylum in 1914, their address is given as 12 Willington Road, Stockwell.  In the Census of 1911 there was just one man living at that house, a Mr Thomas Chivers who is a postman. He remains living there for several years and we can suppose that Chrissie and Frederick were lodgers. Later in her case notes, Cissie refers to being frightened in her own home by a postman!

Admission to Manor Asylum, Epsom

Cissie was admitted to Manor Asylum, Epsom on December 7th, 1914 from Lambeth parish due to ‘prolonged mental illness’.

On entry, Cissie said, “She will not go home because of a man who frightens her”. She says she was also frightened when in the country, although she was not able to say by whom. She had reported her husband to the police because there was a ‘mystery’.

Cissie’s husband was able to provide more detail…

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We know that Cissie was 5ft 1in and that she had blue eyes.  There is reference in the notes to Cissie having had Maud, ‘an illegitimate child’ 20 years previously.

Cissie describes herself as a ‘rare bloody woman’! She says that she has done just about everything except murder but does not provide details.  She asks that the nurses do not pull her hair.

From the Case Notes 

Cissie refers again later to being frightened in her own home, by a postman. She wants to be sent to a prison not to an asylum. She is sullen, abusive and apparently in poor health. Specifically she asks to be sent to Holloway Prison. Chrissie spends time in a padded cell.

By January 1915, we find Cissie in much the same agitated state – her language is filthy, her habits dirty and she is resistant to anything being done for her. 

Cissie declares herself to be a princess and that her prince is a force soldier. At this time, she had again spent three days in a padded cell.

In June 1915, Cissie spends four days in bed, her memory much impaired, accusing the nurses of trying to murder her. On July 10th she is transferred to ‘Ward A’ and then two days later to ‘Ward C’. In October, a tumour is discovered in her groin, which apparently disappears when she is lying down.

Chronic Mania

By November 5th, her case notes record a heavily underlined ‘chronic mania’; she says she knows the King, Queen and the Prince of Wales and that she is the Princess Royal. 

In April 1916, Cissie is transferred to Cane Hill, perhaps for some treatment.

Chrissie’s notes next place her in Manor from August 10th, 1916. She is being quite regularly medicated, with many references to he being prescribed chloral, a sedative. After this, her notes are only periodically updated and by February 20th 1918, Chrissie is described as very demented. The same pattern continues in the notes right up until October 1919, where we learn that, despite her mania, she is in fair health.

From March 1920 her notes become very elaborate. There are some considerable concerns and by June 27th we learn that Cissie is ‘very feeble’. 

Visitors to Cissie –  A Daughter appears

A visitor book record for Manor Asylum, which came to light in 2026, shows that Cissie had various visitors while in Manor. These entries conjure up the emotions of the family at the time, visiting at the end of Cissie’s life.

Her mother-in-law, Ellen Bedford, visits once in 1914. Cissie’s husband, Frederick visits regularly with the last visit recorded on July 25th 1920, just four days before her death.

We find her daughter Maud Matthews visiting in May 1920. Her address was 22 Baddow Road, Chelmsford. She visits again with Frederick in July 1920 and this time gives her name as Maud Bedford (unless the scribe assumed that was her name). For the later visit this reads as The Baddow Rd Hospital. 

Cissie Dies

Cissie dies at 5.20pm on July 29th, 1920; the cause of death, ‘carcinoma of the uterus’. The duration of the disease is recorded as unknown but at least three months.

Cissie was buried in grave 64b on August 4th 1920. Chrissie was just 42 years old. 

Finding out more about Chrissie’s daughter

The story takes a new direction in 1929 when Maud marries her stepfather Frederick Bedford. 

In 1921 we find Frederick living alone at the above address. 

On April 10th 1922, Maud gives birth to a daughter, Mary Joyce, who appears possibly to have been born in Swansea. Maud and Frederick have a daughter together, Dorothy Clarice Bedford is born to couple in 1929.

In the 1939 Register, Mary Joyce Bedford is living with Maud, now a widow, in Carshalton, Surrey.

A Family Likeness

It is clear to see the family likeness of Chrissie with the family she never appeared to live with? These photos are on line research sites.

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Chrissie in 1914 Louisa Lydia Matthews, mother Eleanor Matthews, née Lucking, maternal grandmother Harriet Matthews, aunt

The family, or at least her grandmother Eleanor, must have knowingly come across Chrissie in such a small area of the country. What contact she had with the Matthews family is unknown. What contact she had with her own mother is unclear, but she was a visitor at the end of her life.

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